How to Know a Healthy Relationship

If you are wondering – what is a healthy relationship like? or you are asking – healthy relationships characteristics? Then you should delve deep into this post as I will be discussing the signs that will make you know a healthy relationship.

When you talk about a healthy relationship, there is no strict guide to know if you are in a healthy relationship. However, if you are in a relationship where one of you constantly put everything into the relationship and the other doesn’t reciprocate, that’s a sign of an unhealthy relationship. If your partner is abusive, the relationship is unhealthy also.

In a healthy relationship, you should always feel loved, secure and you should never feel terrified of your partner.

Having said all these, there are signs to look out for and know if your relationship is healthy.

How to Know a Healthy Relationship

1. You Support yourselves

One person shouldn’t stress themselves out trying to please their spouse by doing all the nice things for their spouse and don’t get any support in return – one person shouldn’t initiate physical affection or sex – one person should not plan the dates and outing.

If your partner is there for you in tough times, support you in the good times by offering encouragement and enthusiasm. It’s a sign the relationship is healthy.

2. You respect yourselves

Respect for your partner is healthy for your relationship. When you and your partner respect each other not only as partners, but as human beings and unique individuals; like respecting each other’s personal dignity, wishes, and seeing value in each other; then the relationship is a healthy one.

Read also: Relationship Tips to Know if a Man Respects You

3. You both communicate

If the communication you have with your partner most of the time is physical affection, listening to each other, validating the other person, using soft words, expressing appreciation, affirmation, and compliments. Then it is a sign the relationship is healthy.

You can complement and express appreciation to your spouse by sending your spouse Romantic messages or by telling them to their face.

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4. You both are honest

You shouldn’t build the foundation of your relationship on lies. If you feel your partner is honest with you then your relationship is healthy.

5. Mutuality

In a healthy relationship, one person is not responsible for making all the decisions (dictate). If both of you direct the relationship; both of you have a say and input in the relationship and develop it together. Then the relationship is healthy.

6. Non – Violent

If the argument in your relationship is not hostile i.e. you can comfortably disagree on things and resolve peacefully.

If the relationship is also free from physical assaults, it’s likely you’re in a healthy relationship.

7. Equality

If your spouse views you and them as equal and doesn’t act as if they are better or higher than you. This is a sign your relationship is healthy.


Relationships vary, therefore the information given here is just healthy relationship tips that can help you build a strong bond with your spouse.

If you are married and your relationship is going through a crisis you can read my article on How to make your marriage work.

Furthermore, some of the things I listed above such as good communication, honesty, may take time to establish in your relationship but if practiced they are keys to a healthy relationship.

Notwithstanding, you should at all times feel secure in a relationship, feel that you are equal with your partner and feel that your partner respects you.

To know the things needed for a healthy relationship read my article on Relationship advise.

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I am Anthony Stephen, an information blogger and the Chief Editor of InfotipsNG. My sole aim of creating this blog is to give Nigerians and other people all over the world well-researched information.

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